We are Now Dating!

Question:

Awhile ago I met this guy online and we are now dating. The thing that bothers me is that he still has his dating profile online.

I want to ask him to delete it for me so that I know he's serious about me, but i dont want to sound controlling or jealous. Although, I also do not want this guy to be going out on dates behind my back and meeting other girls. Is it wrong for me to ask him to delete his dating profile? How can i ask him without sounding so jealous?

Answer:

He better delete that profile, immediately! Just tell him, haha, I mean "ask him", if he is still using it as much as you trust him you never know what they are doing behind your back. Trust me, this is something I know very well. Plus, if he cares about you, he will not mind if you ask him to do this, he should understand if he is serious and respectful of you and your feelings in life. How long have you been dating now? What is the level of your relationship with this guy? Exclusive relationship? Open relationship? These are factors to consider as well.